Publisher: Amazon (USA)
This topic has 6 sections and discusses the following:
Now more than ever before each of us has to plan for our future: the one that is suited to our talents and personality, not the one that we think we have to accept!
Take the first step, buy the book and take control of your future! If you don’t take control, others will and you won’t like the results!
Are you tired of accepting “second best” in so many areas of your life (e.g. your career and love life)?
If so, then seriously ask yourself: “Do you want to lead the life that you have designed and made up to suit your unique personality, or the one that someone else has chosen for you?” If you want to make positive changes to your way of life, then consider getting some good practical advice from this book.
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life!” (That is the theme of this book!)
Not only can this book help you to put your life together, but it can also help you to discover your destiny. It discusses the necessity of discovering your true self as well as what you want in life; and it emphasizes that you have created the life that you are currently living (even if you are not aware of it), and most importantly that you have the power to make whatever changes you want, so that you can redesign your life to one that suits you.
This book describes the many forces that have shaped and molded you, especially the impact that your family and society have had upon you. Your family, in particular, has had a “huge” role in making you the kind of person that you are today. If you were fortunate, you grew up in a well-balanced, loving family. However, most people have not been that fortunate, and have grown up in dysfunctional families where they never received the proper guidance to put their lives in order.
This book can help you see your life in realistic terms, and give you advice on how to leave the past behind and move forward to live a positive, happy life (one that you deserve).
You will be shown how to set up a Life Plan (your master plan for your life) and a practical Annual Action Plan, which will help you implement your Life Plan. Your Annual Action Plan can assist you in setting realistic, attainable goals on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis throughout the year so that you are always moving forward and systematically accomplishing your most important short-term and long-term goals (e.g. losing weight, finding your soul mate, getting a better job, etc.).
Several years ago when American TV actress, Meghan Markle, boarded an American plane bound for London, England she had a plan: she was going to marry a wealthy Englishman. No matter what, she was determined to make her plan come true. Using her close female friend’s connections, she was able to be set up on a blind date with Prince Harry, a member of the British Royal Family. Prince Harry had the wealth and lifestyle that fit her plan. It was a “perfect” match: his wealth would be combined with her ambition. Who says dreams don’t come true? Follow Meghan Markle’s lead: have a plan for your life and stick with it! You, too, can have the life that you’ve always wanted! Below is the photo of Prince Harry’s latest purchase (July 2020) for his beloved Meghan: a $14.7 million (US) mansion in Santa Barbara, California. It has 9 bedrooms and 16 bathrooms. She is set for life!
To help you achieve success, this book will discuss innovative concepts such as using an Accountability Partner, using an Accountability Team, and visiting a sacred site for its incredible healing and transformational powers.
The life that you are trying to find is also trying to find you! The best investment you can make is in yourself. Take the first step: decide that you want a new life, and then go and live it! Plan for your future; otherwise you won’t have one!
Gender: Male and Female
Nationality: This book has been written for an American audience, but the topic is applicable to all nationalities.
Age Group: 24 – 28 years, The “Where do I go from here?” group
These people have been out of high school for several years and completed their technical, college, or university training and want direction as to where they should go from here.
Age Group: 34 – 42 years, The “What happened? I need a change!” group
These people have experienced life: they are on the “correct” career path, are married or in a long-term relationship, and have set up the so-called “perfect” life, only to be disillusioned. They want answers as to what went wrong and how they can get their life back on track.
Age Group: 55 + years, The “It’s now my turn to start living life how I really want!” group
These people have paid their “dues” to society and have done everything that has been expected of them to do (e.g. get married and have children, have the home in the suburbs, be the model citizen, etc.). They now want to live life on their terms and do what they have always wanted to do.
They are not interested in a career (as retirement is looming) and they want to add meaning and value to the years that they have left on this planet.
If you are suffering from any of the above, then read on, as help is available. This year, give the best gift possible to yourself: find your purpose in life and live a purposeful life each and every day. Or, give the book as a gift to someone you care about in order to help that person find direction in his or her life!
For inspiration, look to the wisdom of a great, young, black American civil rights activist from the 1960’s, Malcolm X, who said: “The Future Belongs to Those Who Prepare for It Today!”
Maybe you haven’t expected much from life or others have told you not to get your hopes up high! Well, this book can change that – it’s a self-help psychology book with a spiritual basis, designed to give you direction in life and a future that you will like!
Let this book guide you, and make this year the best year ever!
If during your childhood or adolescence you were neglected (e.g. your mother or father either ignored you or did nothing to enrich your life) or you were a victim of physical, psychological, or sexual abuse, then this book can help you get your life back on track.
The number of victims of such negligence or abuse, particularly in the United States, numbers in the millions. You are not alone in what happened to you!
As a matter of fact, the author of this book was himself both a victim of physical and psychological abuse by both his parents. He survived, has redesigned his life, and now wants to help others get the help that they need.
Don’t waste one more day! Start the healing process and get your life in order. You may be surprised as to how great your life will become!
Author: Eric Alexander Hamilton
Publisher: Amazon, the book (in print and e-book format) can be ordered from its site: www.amazon.com
ISBN 13: 9781530111961
Library of Congress Control Number: 2016903130
Number of Pages: 292
Cost: Paperback, $14.95 U.S. E-book, $3.49 U.S.
Dates of Publication: Print: August 22, 2016, E-book: September 2, 2016, Published in the USA (Note: the material in this book is timeless – the message is as applicable in 2020 as it was in 2016)
In this world there are only two types of people: those who know what they want in life and those who do not know what they want in life. Those who know what they want in life go and live life to the fullest and are showered with happiness and success, whereas those who do not know what they want in life are doomed to wander aimlessly throughout life, sometimes winning, but most of the time losing! It’s up to you to decide in which group you want to belong. If your life isn’t what you want it to be, then redesign it!
This book is for men and women who want to succeed. Even if the only action this book gets you to do is to start thinking about the necessity of making improvements in your life, then this book will have brought some positive change to your life. You may not want to think about the current state of your life. Most people don’t want to face reality, until it is too late. Do not wait till your life has hit rock bottom (its lowest point) before you make the necessary changes. Do what you have to do. Start planning for your future; otherwise you will not have one.
This book takes a holistic view on trying to find out why you are not leading the life you want; then it takes you step-by-step through the process needed to help you create the life you want. While there are many self-help psychology books that have been published these past few years, few authors take into consideration the enormous amount of abuse and suffering that both men and women have endured (e.g. sexual, physical, or emotional abuse), which prevents them from obtaining a better life. It is very easy to tell someone: “Just think happy, positive thoughts. Your life will change, and you’ll emerge a better person, living the life you always wanted.”
While positive thinking is an essential part of helping someone to make the necessary improvements in his or her life, it is not going to be an immediate cure-all solution to anyone who has grown up in an abusive family or in the midst of an abusive society. Positive thinking alone will be ineffectual, for that person has far too many issues and problems that need to be overcome before any changes can be made.
A major strength of this book is its discussion of the effects a dysfunctional family or society has had in particular upon young Americans. American society has huge social problems created by the existence of so many dysfunctional families; these families, in turn, have produced large numbers of people who are totally aimless (lost). As explained in this book, you can obtain the future you want, but you will have to work through your problems and be willing to make whatever changes are necessary to move you forward (i.e. help you succeed).
The path to discovering your destiny will not be easy, but it is worth the effort. So many people have defined you and your wants that you are more than likely totally clueless as to what you actually want (and need) in life.
If you are able to sift through all the baggage (unrealistic expectations) everyone has dumped on you, then you can rapidly discover your destiny and start living the life that you were meant to live. In order to do so, you will need to change your perceptions about life: see it as one of adventure, fun, good health, happiness, and success; and not one of endless ordeal where you are just trying to survive one day at a time, always worried about tomorrow.
Some people may be too scared to discover their innermost passions for fear that they are destined to be poor, homeless, or unhappy. Nothing could be further from the truth. The only way that you can be truly happy and successful is to fulfill your destiny (i.e. be your true self).
Taking what you perceive to be a safe route (keeping the status quo) such as staying in a dead-end job because of the salary and benefits, or staying in an unhealthy relationship or marriage for fear of being alone does not guarantee you a happy, successful life. On the contrary, it makes your present life even more unbearable. There’s a good reason why the divorce rate, the level of employee absenteeism, and the overall rate of drug and alcohol abuse is so high: people are unhappy with their lives.
One of the major obstacles to discovering your passions in life is more than likely your obsession with security. American society, in particular, is overly obsessed with security: everyone wants their future mapped out so that there are no surprises or discomforts along the way.
Examine the incredible array of insurance products and you will see that as a society we are becoming obsessed with insuring ourselves for every possible problem or situation: insurance in case we get sick on the job; insurance in case we lose our job; insurance for the car, house, and every content in the house; insurance in case our investments go bad; insurance in case we get sick while traveling overseas; insurance in case our spouse dies or is injured; insurance in case we have to retire early, and so on. The list is endless. After a while you will not be able to leave your home, unless your insurance covers you!
The major theme of this book is that you shouldn’t delay your dreams, whatever they may be. Decide to start living today. Don’t wait till you retire and can barely walk. If you have always wanted to go to college, to work aboard a cruise ship, to take that special trip to Paris, or to explore the Amazon Rain Forest in Brazil, then go and do it. Explore your world. You may be surprised what you find.
Your destiny awaits, and it’s one that you will enjoy. Read this book, discover your dreams, and be willing to make positive improvements to your life.